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What happens when you feel like you are spinning out of control?

For 2 months I have not been able to keep up the motivation I had to keep on my weight loss program and do my techniques to end anxiety.

I think about what needs to be done and I have all the good intentions but nothing is coming of it all.

I had a talk with myself this morning and realized I have not been listening to my own inner voice.

I discovered why this was happening after I had been doing all the best things for myself.

The information has been all around me and I have been blocking it out.

My mind has not been open for some reason and I had the feeling I was slipping back into the patterns of nearly 3 years ago when I was 66pounds heavier and not motivated and living with isolation and depression.

To have to look at myself under the microscope and admit that somewhere along the way everyone and everything else was getting my attention and I had forgotten about myself.

I even started getting chest pain and had to use the nitro spray to get the pain to subside.

I was working myself up into a frenzy because I was disappointed in the weight I was gaining, the food I was not properly eating and the negative attitude I was developing.

I looked at the programs and the techniques I had been using and felt sad because it all seemed to be slipping away in a big hurry.

It was as if once the backward slide began it took on a momentum go its own and felt like an avalanche of all my work getting buried beneath a pile of overwhelming sadness and let us face it, laziness.

It is easy to claim a loss of motivation but I had to go deeper than that.

Once I had let other people, problems and events take over my life again I could not get back to my own needs.

It was a case of slipping back into my old self and the comfortable place where I did not have to work hard at improving my life.

I got to look at all the information I had laying around about my previous heart attack and all the things I was supposed to be doing.

For example, exercising, eating the best foods and portions as well as working on the stress elimination process.

The stress part is in my mind the most important because if I can manage that the rest will follow.

I did not know how fast and easily the old habits could return if I forgot about myself.

Let me say that today I did not over eat and I exercised.

I also listened to the music I enjoy and now am feeling the stress begin to lessen.

I also visualized the way I was succeeding and feeling before I lost the motivation and I am getting back on track.

I do not want to be overweight again this summer.

This is a motivator for me as I worked so hard to get those pounds off and at the time I made a promise to myself that this would be the last time I was ever going to be heavy.

It was important to my self-esteem how I was looking and it had benefits to my heart as well.

I say all this to let you know we are human and along with our failings come knowledge and the self-power to change.

I needed to open up my mind to what was really bothering me in order to return to my quest to lead an anxiety free life.

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At one point or another, nearly 1 out of every 60 people suffer from anxiety. Although it is not always properly identified, it is important to have a full understanding of the variety of causes of anxiety, as well as how they are identified.

In today’s society, there are many things that can cause anxiety. Anxiety is more prevalent today due to things like financial and work matters and the instability of the world we live in.

Financial problems are one of the most common causes of anxiety. With easy access to credit cards, people often find themselves buried in debt. For many, this type of debt can be very serious and can cause severe anxiety and stress problems.

Relationships, whether they are work related or personal, are also very common causes of anxiety. With the divorce rate being higher than ever, more and more people find themselves dealing with anxiety. Both the breakdown of the marriage and the aftermath, contribute to higher anxiety levels.

Another common trigger of anxiety is work. Many employees find they do not have job security and work in a volatile environment. Today’s companies are trying to perform more tasks, with fewer employees. Therefore, employees find they have a heavier workload, thereby causing more anxiety and stress.

Some common anxiety symptoms are:

- Little or no sex drive
- Unable to concentrate
- Little or no appetite
- Overall restlessness
- Feeling like you are being judged or watched
- Withdrawing from social settings
- Muscle tension and stress

These are just a few of the more common anxiety symptoms. However, if anxiety is left untreated, more several symptoms can occur. Therefore, the earlier you get help for your anxiety, the easier it is to deal with it. If left untreated, emotional and physical illnesses can occur.

If you believe you have anxiety, be sure to speak with you doctor. He can then properly diagnose you and determine the best and most effective course of action for you.

Shane Baxter writes about various anxiety related topics such as anxiety disorder treatments on the Zogol.com website. Do you run a website that is related to anxiety and stress? Visit http://www.zogol.com for more helpful articles that you are free to use on your own website.

If your child has been diagnosed with high functioning autism, parenting can be a challenge. The main reason is because autistics do not think and mentally develop the same way as the average child, and so must be taught individually and differently. Therefore, the challenge is finding out what parenting methods work for your autistic child. Essentially, it’s a lot of trial and error.

Raising a child with high functioning autism can be made easier by providing children with the necessary therapy they require. However, aside from therapy, the following are 5 basic parenting tips that may prove helpful along the way:

Tip 1 - Create Schedules – Most autistics, including those with high functioning autism, resist change and insist on routine. Creating schedules helps autistic children to better comprehend situations and learn. You need to provide your child with a daily schedule that shows him/her the order of activities they will experience. If your child has difficulty reading, create a picture schedule.

Furthermore, telling a child in advance that an activity is about to change, helps to create an easier transition for them. For instance, tell your child “In 5 minutes, we’re going to stop coloring and read a story”.

Tip 2 - Create understanding – Make sure your child understands what you want him/her to do. Ensure that the task you are asking is achievable and you understand the specific way in which your child learns and reacts to information told to him/her.

For instance, you should refrain from using figures of speech as part of instruction. A figure of speech is when you use an expression that has a non-literal meaning (IE. metaphors, similes, etc.) This form of language will be lost on an autistic. Thus, a better choice would be to use a visual aid such as a picture or a demonstration, to clarify the task.

Tip 3 – Create a personalized behavior plan – You can’t rely on the parenting methods that work for parents with regular children, or even those who have a child with high functioning autism. You need to create a program that is specifically oriented around the interests and needs of your child. This means analyzing your child’s behavior and creating a personal program based on his/her behavioral patterns. This is how you will eventually get your child to learn, respond and interact with others.

Tip 4 – Focus on improvement – Instead of trying to explain to your child what you don’t like when they do something you deem inappropriate or unproductive, focus on improving their behavior. If you want to improve on past behaviors, teach new “acceptable” ones to replace the old.

Teaching new behavioral skills will take plenty of time, patience and practice, but eventually the new acceptable behaviors will replace those you don’t approve of.

Tip 5 – Sensitivity alert! – Make sure you are aware of the triggers that will upset your child, so you can do your best to ensure they are avoided. Some issues that tend to upset those with high functioning autism include, but are not limited to:

• Sudden loud sounds (IE. alarms)
• Unusual smells in a particular room
• Discomfort when touched
• Being bumped

Although you can’t ensure your child will always be safe from sensitive issues, by knowing what they are helps you to have more control. Like any child, the less stress your autistic child has, the more productive they will be.

Remember, as a parent of a child with high functioning autism, you need to learn how to go with the flow, be creative, patient - and above all – maintain a positive attitude.

By Rachel Evans. To find out more about high functioning autism and for information o adult autism please visit The Essential Guide To Austism, where you can also sign up for a free newsletter focusing on managing autism.